We are sharing, with you, a few of the heartfelt emails and letters we have received. Please take the time to read them and know that for all of you that are helping, have helped and will help in the future ...  these are meant for you too!.  
     
  Comments & Emails from hospitals & NILMDTS photographers  who have received gowns  (doc)  
     
  2 hand written letters from Mothers that received one on our gowns  (pdf)  
 

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I just found your web site my name is Shelly S. a year ago March 2nd I had my first son Nathaniel Alan, he was still born at 24 weeks. It was one of the hardest things I have ever been through. When I woke up from having him I found the note that you had given my husband and told me about the gown you gave him it meant so much to me in everything going on i never took to the time to even think about it. It touched me so much and still does I still have the original letter than came with his gown and will continue to keep it. I keep all the women you have touched in my prayers and know that through all the hard times there is a God and he sends people like you when we need them the most thank you so much. You will forever be in my heart.

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Sandra T.  wrote:
            I WOULD LIKE TO DONATE MY WEDDING GOWN TO YOUR     PROJECT.  WHERE WOULD I MAIL IT TO?  HOW DOES IT HAVE TO BE SHIPPED?  
THANK YOU 

 Carlin kammerer  11/29/2005   11:34:58 PM  wrote:
Where are you located? You can mail it to PO Box  6207, Omaha Nebraska 68106. You can ship it in any  box. Thanks so much, it means a great deal to the  parents who must dress their little ones. We also   put   memory tags in all the burial outfits, if you would  like, you can include a list of your deceased loved   ones, and all the outfits made from your gown will  be in their memory. Thanks again!   

 Sandra T.wrote:

GOOD MORNING, I LIVE IN STATEN ISLAND, NEW YORK. I   AM EMAILING YOU FROM   WORK WHICH IS LOCATED IN BROOKLYN NEW YORK. I WORK   FOR THE NYC FIRE   DEPARTMENT. I WILL MAIL OUT THE GOWN HOPEFULLY THIS   WEEKEND.   I WAS VERY TOUCHED WHEN I READ A STORY ABOUT YOUR   PROGRAM IN MY LOCAL   PAPER A WHILE AGO AND AFTER MOVING MY PARENTS OUT OF   THEIR HOME I HAVE   RETRIEVED MY GOWN.   I WOULD LIKE TO PUT THE GOWN(S) IN MEMORY OF THE 343 FIRE OFFICERS AND   FIREFIGHTERS WE LOST ON September 11, 2001. I LOST a lot OF VERY CLOSE   FRIENDS.   I WILL INCLUDE THIS IN W/ MY GOWN.   WISHING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND THANK   YOU FOR YOUR WORK   FOR THIS BABIES      

Carlin Kammerer wrote:

You made my day! I would be honored to make burial gowns in memory of those brave firefighters! Thank you for your donation. It means so much to the parents. Thanks again!

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 Kim D.  wrote:

  Dear Carlin,         I have to tell you that when I stumbled across your   website when looking  for ideas on what to do with my wedding dresses it   brought such a   feeling of joy to my heart that a charity like this   exists. I knew   there was a reason that I was holding on to my   dresses but I just didn't   know why until I found your website.         I was married at the young age of 19 and   unfortunately the marriage only   lasted two years. I had my wedding dress heir   loomed and had thought   about getting rid of it in a yard sale or on eBay   but knew there must be   something better I could do with it. I've offered   it to many friends   who were getting married but either they were not as   small as I am or   they wanted their own dress. Ten years later I got   married for the   second time and during my search for the perfect   dress I bought one at a   bridal shop with a no return policy. As luck would   have it within a   couple of months of purchasing this dress I found   the dress of my dreams   online and had it shipped to me from Virginia. The   original dress I   bought for this wedding still hangs in my closet in   a garment bag with   the tags still attached. Again I thought of selling   it on eBay but   procrastinated with that.         As I was putting clothes away in my closet this   weekend and had to push   the bulky garment bag aside yet again, I went online   searching for ways   to donate wedding dresses and clicked on the link to   your website and   was overwhelmed with emotion. You see, I had to   bury my first child   back in 1996 because he was born too early. He was   a little boy we   named Christian Joseph and it was a horribly   difficult time for us. It   was so hard trying to make all the arrangements that   we never expected   to make because we thought we'd be planning a   nursery and the torture of   having to decide what your child will be buried in   instead of picking   out the outfit they will go home in is   heartbreaking. We buried my son   in a blanket that his grandmother had made for him.   To think that I   could make such a traumatic experience any easier on   someone eases my   own pain in a way. It helps me to believe that   things do happen for a   reason and that there is a purpose for everything.         I would absolutely love donating my wedding dresses   to your charity. I   am so blessed to have an eight year old son now and   we are anxious to   pack up my dresses and send them to such wonderful   caring true life   angels. Can you send me information on how you   prefer the dresses to be   packaged and what form of shipment method you prefer   and where to send   them to?         Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!         Sent with love,   Kim       

 Carlin Kammerer wrote:

Thanks so much. I am sorry for your loss. You can send it to Mary Madeline Project, PO Box 6207, Omaha Nebraska 68106. Regular post office delivery is cheaper. I don't have a perference for the box, whatever they will fit in is good. Did you know about the memory tags? We put memory tags in all the little burial outfits. If you would like, we can make all the gowns from your dress in your little boy's name. Just put something in the box to let us know. Thanks so much. You know from personal experience what it is like to go to a newborn department of a store to find something to bury your baby in.

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Hi!   I just read about your group and want to donate my   wedding dress. Please let me know how I can get the   dress to you.   Aloha,   Edwina G.   Honolulu, HI

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I lost a baby girl 17 1/2 years ago and back then -   things like this were not done - I strongly believe   in the chance to say goodbye with dignity and what   your programs does for a parent is ~ amazing.   Please let me know how I can have a dress made for   my grandchild and donate the remainder of my gown to   benefit other babies.    

Thank you!   Roseanne

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I read an article about your wonderful program last   week in our local  newspaper, and would like to offer you two   wedding dresses.   My Mother's dress has been packed away ever since   she and my Father   married over 50 years ago. She passed away several   years ago, and I've   been keeping it wondering what to do. My two piece   wedding dress from my   wedding some 13 years ago has developed some spots,   but otherwise, the   silk is in good condition. Up to last year, I wore   the top of my dress   with another skirt each year on our wedding   anniversary. The spots   could not be taken out, and I did not know what to   do with it.     Your article was heartwarming, and was to me a   perfect way to extend the   usefulness of our dresses. They gave us both great   pleasure on our   wedding day, and to know they will be put to good   use makes me feel   wonderful. 

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 Having lost a baby at my 6th month, I would like to   find out how to donate my wedding gown. This   happened 30 years ago and I still get teary when   thinking about it. Thank you for the work that you do.   Marie B.

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--- Clair H. wrote:

  Dear Ladies, I have just read a wonderful article in  the Mobile paper about you. I want to spread the   word here in Mobile, and will also tell someone to   do the same in Austin Texas, and in Knoxville   Tennessee.  What wonderful work

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 i saw an article in my nj paper about your   organization. i am not interested in material things   so when i read about your group i couldn't think of   a better place to donate my gown that is just taking   up space in a closet. my son was stillborn in my   21st week of pregnancy so i felt this would be a   loving tribute to my matthew. when my 2 1/2 year old   twin girls are older i will let them know that the   wedding dress i wore when i was just 2 weeks   pregnant with their brother was given to help other   babies.you are doing a wonderful service! please   let me know how i go about getting my dress to you,   address etc. eileen

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   Hello,     My name is Denise H. and I live in   Michigan. I read about The Mary Madeline project in   this mornings newspaper. I have a wedding dress   that I would like to donate. I was married a few   years ago and spent $1000 on my dress. It is   beautiful and I would love to donate it for this   cause. I have an 11 1/2 month old son and I can't   imagine the incredible pain that these parents must   go through. Please let me know where to send the   dress.     God Bless you and the work you do.

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 This morning there was an article in our local   newspaper about   donating wedding gowns. I always thought it a good   idea but as   many. never got around to it. I have been married 30   years and my gown is   preserved in a box. The reason for my contacting you   is two - fold. My   name is Madeline and I too lost a child although it   was a miscarriage.   The pain of losing that baby has been with me   forever and I was never   able to conceive another.   I would like to send my gown to bring something   beautiful for an   angel that God calls to Heaven . Perhaps in a small   way it can help   someone.   Can you give me some information?   Thank you,   Madeline L.

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 I was going to alter and sell them, but   being an ER nurse, I have seen   how the death of a child can devastate the heart and   spirit. I'd much rather   give them to someone with a higher purpose, like   you.  …..     Sincerely,   Lisa A.

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I am the only daughter, sister, granddaughter,   great-grandaughter and niece in my family. My   grandmother purchased my gown for me, so it is very   special to me. I have stored it in my closet for 20   years knowing it would not go anywhere and I would   not have a daughter who would want to wear it. I   heard about this project on the news and the light   bulb came on within my heart.

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   Hi,   This past spring when I was pregnant with my second   child, I read an article in our local newspaper   about the Mary Madeline Project. I was so touched   by the work that you do that I decided I had to   donate my wedding gown. Fortunately I have been   blessed to have two healthy boys. But to lose a   child must be the worst tragedy a parent could ever   have to deal with, I can only imagine the pain. If   my gown could help to ease just a little of that   pain, then donating it to such a worthy cause would   be well worth it.     For once in my life being plus-sized is a good  thing! hehe! Please let me   know where I can send it and I'll get it out as soon  as possible. Thank you.

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 After reading about the Mary Madeline project I  finally have found exactly what I am looking for. I   have a tea length wedding dress that has been   professionally preserved for about 14 years that I   would love to donate to this wonderful   organization. Please e-mail me with the info, and   if you are not in need for it right away I'd like to   send it after the new year. I am sure that you must   get alot of thanks, but I want to say it   "THANK-YOU" for spending your time and effort on  comforting these families in need, it is truly the  work of ANGELS!     Happy holidays,     Alicia C.

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   Hello     I read a newspaper artical about your organization &   was very touched. I am lucky to be a mother of 2   grown children. I did loose one child years ago &   will never forget the anguish. I would like to send  dresses & materials to be used for burial garments.   Please email me with exceptable criteria. I could   also use information on crocheted items. …..     God Bless Mylene K.

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 Hi Carlin,   I am touching base with you once more to apologize   for me calling so late lastnight. I got so excited when i found you that i just had to call. :) …… Thank you so much and you will be blessed!     Sincerely and through Christs love,   Kelsey S.

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  Hi Charlin,     My friend, Sonya, said she dropped off my wedding   dress to you (in November) and saw some of the   beautiful things you are making with them for the   little ones. What a great gift you give.

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Our daughter recently gave birth to our first   granchild. A beautiful baby girl. It was necessary   for the baby to spend four days in the Neo-natal   Intensive Care unit. Such a sad sight. We are happy   to say that mother and baby are now in thier home   and doing fine.     I recently read an article about your project in our   local "Trenton Times" (New Jersey) newspaper. My   husband and I would like to donate my wedding gown   to the Mary Madeline Project. We have been married   36 years.

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--- lizzie p wrote: 

Hi, my name is Lori. I saw a news clip about you   the other night on TV. I work at ________ Hospital  ……  in the Labor and Delivery Department….. That means I help the OB doctors  with c-sections. Unfortunately, some of these   c-sections are done for high risk reasons and the   babies or moms are in jeopardy. Some of the babies   we see delivered do not live long on this earth and  I sometimes am one of the first and few peoples ever  to see them. I sort of love this part of my job,   because I get to see these angels and pass along a  little prayer on their behalf.     A few weeks ago, someone was telling me about a  group in Omaha, that makes gowns for these babies   out of old wedding dresses and donates them. We  also have a lady that makes little gowns from other  sources. I would like to become involved is this   and wanted to know if you could use another   seamstress? I do have my wedding dress, I would   like to make a christening gown for my future   grandbabies, but would be more than willing to make   another one or two baby gowns out of my dress.     If you could please contact me at:   …… I would love to hear from you on this.     Thanks   Lori

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 Dear Friends,     I saw the story on 10/11 news last night about your   project. I was wondering if you could do anything   to help me.     My brother and his wife are expecting twins (their   first babies) in November, one boy and one girl.   Tragically, the boy has birth defects which will   cause him to die shortly after birth. My brother   and his wife have be trying for 7+ years to have a   baby. Do you provide outfits for babies born out of   state? My brother lives in Cleveland, Ohio. The  outfits looked so beautiful on tv that I was   compelled to write.     Thank you for developing a project such as this.   Losing a baby is crushing and your kindness is   wonderful.     Thank you in advance for your reply.     Sherrie B.

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